There are some things in life that irks me the most… Since Diwali is coming and I want to do a list of things that people do it irritate the life out of me…

THE HATE LIST

1. I hate it when someone vents their anger on me. If I am asking you a question and for some weird reason, you are in the blackest clouds, IGNORE me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t give me sarcastic answers, especially early in the morning.

2. I hate it when someone asks me to give up my dogs. I take care of their expenses and needs, not anyone else. So shove your comments up where the sun doesn’t shine.

3. I hate it when I have to report to someone my every activity. I don’t report to anyone. When I say I am out, don’t ask me the 5Ws’ and 1H. I tell you I am out and who I am with and what time I would be back. No further questions are required after the sentence, “I am out with ABC at XX place and would be at XX time.”

4. I hate it when people don’t LISTEN and interrupt me. If you do and misinterpret what I have said, then too bad! Shit happens!!!!!

5. I hate it when I am forced to listen to even though I have just said, “I am angry and I don’t wanna listen.”

6. I hate it when people try to take control of my life. It’s my life and I know how to run it. I was running it well till you showed up so what’s the problem????

7. I hate it when I am looked upon as a 6 year old child, who can’t decide which candy she wants. I am 26-fucking-years old. I will damn well do want I want and whenever I want. If you have a problem, TOO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!

8. I hate it when people read my random notes and think it’s all about them and insist it’s all about them. HELLO!!!!! My world doesn’t revolve around you. Just because I blog about something which you think is about doesn’t mean it has to be around you. Most of the stories are fictional unless stated otherwise.

9. I hate it when I am given credit for no apparent reason. If you have screwed up big time, giving me credit would not and cannot redeem your wrong-doing. If you fucked up big time; nothing you say or do can redeem it. So, no point putting me on a pedestal.

10. Don’t give me lame excuses for you insecurity. GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Phew!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel so much better after composing the list….

To all my Indian readers,

HAPPY DIWALI!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wishing You Peace, Prosperity and Happiness...

Hello people,

It’s a beautiful Thursday!!!!! It is officially the 4^th week since I have been going to the temple doing my 108 rounds. *yays*

I’m still looking for a job… not really a good time to be out looking for a job… damn the economic downturn… it’s so damn difficult to get a job… guess my nightmare of becoming a domestic engineer a.k.a housewife-cum-breeding machine is gonna come true….aaarrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!

Diwali’s round the corner… it’s really scary the way the year’s just zooming by… so many things are happening so fast… this year’s coming to an end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So many things to so, so many things to buy… don’t know where to start first… I’m so going to damn expo, no matter how sticky and smelly it will be!!!! Need to buy cookies and deco… gonna rush it all on the last day… might be meeting Guna and her hubby… I will be there with Mohan… emotionally blackmailed him to follow me…. *evil laughter*

Last night, I watched “Nights in Rothanthe”. Richard Gere and Diane Lane were so good… the on-screen chemistry was superb… I don’t care what others say… Richard Gere is hot!!!!!! He can rock my boat any day… I CRIED during the movie… *don’t die of shock!*

The whirlwind romance, the storm and the simple pleasure of having someone hold you…. *sigh*

All chicas should catch this movie…. Do watch it with your loved ones but don’t come out yelling, “Why can’t you be like him ah?”

It’s irritating… If everyone ends up like Richard Gere, the world would be flat!!!!

I love watching going to the theatres to watch movies. The smell of popcorn and the uber cold halls; it’s something that cannot be recreated. However, it irks me when some a**holes decided otherwise. Thus I have come up with a list.

10 things thou shan’t do in the theatre.

1. Thou shall not walk in the theatre when the movie has already started. It’s rude!!!!!!!!

2. Thou shall bring thy own jacket. If you forgot and can’t share with partner/friend, too bad. DIE in the freezing cold then.

3. Thou shall shut the F*ck up when the movie is going on. If you friend/partner has missed the previous scene, too bad shit happens! Move on!!! I didn’t pay 10 buck to hear you yak!

4. Thou shall not make out if thou aren’t in a dark corner. I wanna watch a movie not some damn “erotica gone wrong”

5. Thou shall not talk on the phone while the movie is going on. You are not stupid neither are you illiterate. How do you f*cking ignore all notices to silent your phone?

6. Once you hear the slurping sound in your cup, it means your drink has finished. So get the f*ck up and buy another drink or get it from your partner/friend. If you came alone, too bad shit happens. Next time, stop being a bloody miser and get yourself a large drink. If you have finished the large drink during the movie, please get yourself check, you camel.

7. When thou decides to have popcorn has a snack, thou shall chew QUIETLY. No one needs to know you are having popcorn.

8. When the girl turns you hand around her once, DON’T try again. It irritates people who are sitting behind and they think you are big time loser.

9. Thou shall not get up till the lights are on. If you do and trip, it’s your fault so stop whining about it.

10. Last and not least, when leaving the cinema thou shall watch out for the person behind and not slam the door.

I know this list make me sound mean but I am a very nice person. Just don’t try to irritate me.

Tata for now!!!! Xoxoxo!!!

Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s been a long time since I have blogged…

Just some random updates:

1. I AM LOOKING FOR A JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2. I HAVE BEEN GOING TO THE TEMPLE EVERY WEEK!!!!!

3. I HAVE STOPPED SMOKING YET AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4. I HAVE STARTED GOING TO THE GYM!!!!!!!!!!!!

5. I AM GONNA START TO SWIM!!!!!!!

Yes yes… I have decided to quit working where I am working now and to look for a new job that pays well and that has got nothing to do with FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!! After working so long, I have come to the conclusion that when one works with family, conflict arises thus shit hits the fan… So DUCK!!!!!

Anyhoo, I’ve been sending resumes and all… I know it’s a bad time looking for a job especially when the economy is so bad… but hey you never know…

YES!!!!!!!!!!! I have been going to temple weekly… doing 108 rounds every Thursday… got to do it for 9 weeks… its high time I start becoming holy which means I got to give my beef… well… I have done well for 2 weeks got another 7 more to go… I SHALL DO IT AND FINISH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have stopped smoking yet again and hope that I would pick it up… too expensive lah… decided to spend the cash on gym-ing as well as swimming… hopefully, I won’t pick the habit up again but then again it’s hard to say… we shall see…

I need to lose 25kg by Mar 2009!!!!!!!!! So I need to gym and swim more often… as it is, I am doing it once a week… Gym-ing I mean… I have not started swimming yet… must start soon… wanna look fabulous in time for my birthday… went to watch Eagle Eye last week with Guna… she’s great… had so much fun with her… Eagle Eye was superb… kept me at the edge of my seat... thank god there was no mushy romance that would have spoiled the climax of the movie…

I wanna watch the movie again!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyone interested??????

AM so gonna go to Teka Expo on the last day!!!!!! *yay* practically begged Mohan to follow me!!!!! He agreed and told me that he would come if I wear to wear long sleeved loose fitting shirt and jeans… hahahaha… the last time we went together, I slapped an Indian worker coz he squeezed my butt… also managed to convince him to watch the latest Richard Gere movie with me…. Hahahahahahaha….

Anyhoo, I have bought 2 suits during the Geylang Expo… so no more Diwali shopping for me… might buy some cookies and all… we shall how things go…

This year would be Romeo’s 1^st diwali… a pity his mummy is not around… finally found the urn and managed to throw her ashes yesterday…. Big thank you to Mr. Luke who brought me to East Coast and helped me open the urn….gonna miss her… but in the words of Mr. Annamalai, “she is in doggie heaven, playing with her mummy and daddy”.

Thank you to one and all for the encouraging words during the difficult time… it meant a lot to me…

I guess I have pretty much summed up everything, no matter how random they are…

Ciao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!