I was at the doctor’s office the other day and while browsing through an old magazine, the following question in the Aunt Agony column caught my eye. Thought I might share this with you….

Dear Irma,

I am a 26 year old girl and have been going out with Guy A for 6 months. We are great together and we love each other (I think, at least I know I love him). However, he has made it clear he doesn’t want to get married to me or to anyone at the moment. He claims to have the “gypsy” blood. I knew he was never going to commit to me and yet I chose to fall in love with him.

Recently, I met Guy B and found that we have many common interests. He is every girl’s knight in shining armor. He is sweet, loving; caring and a whole lot more. Unfortunately, I have been with too many rough nuts to appreciate him. He has fallen in love with me and has told me he wants to spend his life with me. I only know this guy for 2 months and he is professing his love to me. I think it’s ridiculous and a little too soon to make such a decision

I am torn between the 2 guys; one who can commit and one who will leave after a few months.

Any advice?

2 men and a lady

Unfortunately, my number got called up and I had to go into the consultation room. When I came out of the room, I wanted to read the advice given but the magazine had disappeared….

Damn old magazine stealer…. May your kids be born ass-less…

This however got me thinking… are there such situations? How confusing can a relationship be? If you like someone, you got to stick with that person… how can one change their taste in men that easily????

Hmmm….

If it were me advising, I would say:

Dear 2 men and a lady,

Make up your bloody mind!!!!!!!!!

We are talking about love here, not clothes. If you knew Guy A isn’t into commitment, why put yourself in that position in the first place? If you think Guy B is proposing too soon, then tell him off.

Maybe it’s time you look into yourself and ask yourself what you want in life.

It is fun being in a relationship but there are stresses as well. Do you want something stable or are you in just for the thrills of it?

You are 26, still young. You should be deciding which career path you would like to take.

Decide on what you want in life before you let other come in.

If anyone out there has read the article and know what advise was given, do give me a shout out….

To all my Muslim readers,

Selamat Hari Raya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maaf Zahir dan Batin…… *sorry if i got it wrong*

Ps. I’m off to Geylang Serai…. Gotta find good bargains…

Pss. It’s the first day of Navarathri and I feel like eating ‘tulang’….

Pss. I am sick and only 52 more days ;)